There is a lot of talk around creating a prenuptial agreement in California. What is there to know exactly and is it even worth it?
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There is a lot of talk around creating a prenuptial agreement in California. What is there to know exactly and is it even worth it?
Read further to find more details.
A prenuptial agreement (“prenup”) is a document that sets forth what will happen to your assets in the event of a divorce, separation, or death.
A prenuptial agreement can preserve and maintain the separate nature of property, instead of being subject to community property or the laws of equitable distribution.
Prenups have been around for thousands of years and were necessary for women in the United States during the 19th Century – up until the Married Women’s Property Act of 1848.
Before the act became law, the prenup required that everything a woman owned or inherited had to be transferee to her husband. In the event that he died or divorced her, she could possibly lose everything.
Today, prenups are becoming more popular for a variety of reasons. There are more women in the workforce today with accumulating wealth. Men and women are getting married later in life, focusing on careers and acquiring property and financial independence along the way.
Prenuptial agreements are also popular when one partner has children from a former marriage and wants to make sure his or her separate property goes to those children.
Prenups are often used to protect the assets of wealthy spouses or preserve a family business. There is a long history of premarital agreements used to protect a wealthy spouse often at the expense of the other spouse.
Originally, prenuptial agreements were studied carefully by judges because they were traditionally used to protect the property of wealthy individuals from less fortunate marriage partners. There were instances where the partner with fewer means was coerced into signing the agreement, and this often led to dissolved marriages.
Today, divorces are more prominent, and women are less vulnerable and have an equal footing in society. They don’t need as much protection as before, and most prenups are upheld.
But deciding whether or not to have a prenuptial agreement can be a difficult decision. There are many pros and cons to consider.
In addition to the above items which are not covered and can lead to rejection of the prenup, here are some more reasons.
States have different laws concerning prenuptial agreements and the distribution of property upon divorce. Community property states have rules that divide accumulated property equally.
Community property states include Arizona, California, Louisiana, Idaho, Nevada, New Mexico, Texas, Washington, Wisconsin, and the territory of Puerto Rico.
Other states have policies of dividing property assets on an equitable distribution basis.
For example, a judge may distribute property by giving the wealthier spouse a portion like 2/3 and the other spouse, 1/3 of the combined property. You should consult your own state to determine its specific rules governing distribution.
If you and your spouse both think that a prenuptial agreement is a good idea for you and your situation, there are some things you should consider to make the experience a positive one.
Be honest with each other and considerate of each other’s feelings. This can be a very tense and emotional experience. You don’t want to jeopardize your marriage before it gets started.
You shouldn’t hide your emotions or disguise your feelings. Being open with one another is an important first step.
Discuss it early on, and don’t wait until just before the wedding. Walking down the aisle leaves little time for discussion.
Once you decide on the process, you should each hire separate attorneys and ask them for an affidavit of independent legal counsel. Keep this with the other forms you fill out as part of the prenuptial proceedings.
A good prenuptial arrangement should serve both your interests and leave you free to enjoy your relationship on a more personal level.
A prenup is a contract that you sign before you get married. Prenups cover how the marital assets and debts will be split up in the event of a divorce. Generally, they cover the assets each partner brings into the marriage (usually stating that those assets will stay with the original owner) and the assets accrued during the marriage. Prenups can cover what happens to a marital home, car, or other property. They can also cover the division of marital debt. If one partner has student loans, for example, a prenup can address whether that debt will stay with the partner that accrued it or whether it will be split between the two.
Note that while prenups can cover pretty much any aspect of your finances, they cannot cover child custody or child support issues. The court will decide those issues based on what’s best for the child.
In California, prenups are governed by the Uniform Premarital Agreement Act of 1986 (UPAA). UPAA sets out certain basic requirements for the agreement to be valid. First, prenups are subject to the basic rules of contract law – both parties must be mentally competent to consent and must actually consent. The agreement is invalid if either party gives consent based on fraud or mistake (lying or making misleading statements about relevant information or genuinely misunderstanding the information or the agreement). If one of the spouses is not proficient in English, the agreement has to be translated to that person’s native tongue.
Finally, the agreement cannot be “unconscionable.” That means it can’t be the result of seriously unequal bargaining power. For example, imagine a prenup between a US citizen and a non-citizen that leaves almost all of the property to the citizen. The court may find that agreement to be unconscionable because the parties had unequal bargaining power – the non-citizen may have feared the loss of the chance at citizenship if he or she did not agree to the prenup. In general, the court will scrutinize any agreement that unduly favors one party.
In addition to those general requirements of contract law, UPAA contains a number of provisions specific to prenups:
If a party wants to waive their right to counsel, they must have complete information about the potential consequences of that decision. They’ll also need to sign a document separate from the prenup stating that they’ve received that information and want to waive their right to counsel. The document must also identify the person that provided them with the information about the consequences of the waiver.
California is a “community property” state. This means that in the absence of a prenup, the property owned by each partner before the marriage will go back to that partner and property accrued or shared during the marriage will be split evenly. With a prenup, the couple can agree either to treat separate property as community property or community property as separate property.
Another aspect of the community property laws in California affects inheritance rights. You can create a will in California, but there are rules about spousal inheritance that will be enforced regardless of what’s in the will. Even if you expressly state that you don’t want your spouse to receive anything after your death, the court will still award him or her half of your community property. Prenups allow you to waive or alter your inheritance rights, as long as it won’t negatively affect your minor children.
There are certain issues that prenups in California cannot address, usually due to public policy concerns. Provisions about child custody or how to raise children aren’t enforceable. Provisions about child support are also unenforceable, unless the provision is about providing more support than what the court orders – paying for a college education or supporting an adult child, for example. Prenups also can’t include provisions that penalize one partner for fault. For example, you can’t decide that one spouse will get nothing in the divorce if he or she is unfaithful.
Finally, even if all of the provisions of the prenup are theoretically valid, the court may examine the agreement and alter it or decline to enforce parts of it if they find that it’s extremely unfair in the first place or if one partner benefits way more than the other partner.
There are a number of reasons to sign a prenup. First, they can help each partner protect valuable assets. They also allow couples to sit down and decide on a fair disposition of any assets while there isn’t any conflict – decisions made with cool heads are more likely to be fair and reasonable than decisions made in the heat of a contentious divorce. Finally, they make the divorce process much simpler. Most or all of the complex financial decisions associated with a split have already been made.
The rules governing prenups in California are complex and you’re generally required to have legal counsel to make sure that the agreement is fair and that you understand all the terms and conditions. If you’re getting married, congratulations! And you should consider consulting with an experienced local attorney to discuss whether a prenup is right for you.
If you are a boomer in California, who has been recently widowed or divorced — and you are thinking about getting married again – you might want to put on the breaks and think about a pre-nuptial agreement.
Some folks think pre-nups are ‘romance killers.’ They can be. However, if you don’t have one you can be exposed to a financial wrecking ball. At the same time, your estate plan could wind up in shambles.
California is a ‘no fault’ community property state. That means a couples’ assets are typically divided in half regardless of circumstances. Couples who wish to have an unequal division of property should enter into a pre-nup to make sure than happens.
Divorced or widowed seniors typically have more assets than younger people do and they also have more financial commitments. There is a lot at stake. Portfolios have shrunk in recent years because of the economy. It is best to sit down with your future new spouse and carefully go over your finances and your expectations. Another concern: are you jeopardizing pension or government benefits with a new marriage?
Another major reason you want to think about a pre-nup is your estate planning concerns. If you re-marry and don’t have a pre-nup and don’t have a will or trust either a major portion of your estate could very well go to your new spouse — and significantly short change your own children from a previous marriage.
The sad fact today is that the national divorce rate is 50% and the divorce rate in California is about 60%. Marrying late in life is no guarantee that relationship will last. Another sad statistic is that a major trend in California is the increasing divorce rate for long term (20 year plus) marriages. The reasons? People are living longer, the kids are grown, there is less stigma attached to divorce, Viagra, etc. It’s the world we live in.
California law permits folks to enter into a pre-nuptial agreement. You can essentially make a contract about all your property prior to getting married. The only thing you cannot contract for with a pre-nup is an agreement on child custody/visitation and child support – issues which are probably not a concern to older folks.
If you are curious, you can look up the Uniform Premarital Agreement Act, which is in the California Family Code starting with Section 1500 and above, and see the requirements for pre-nups.
There are a number of hoops you have to jump through. Some include the fact that each side should be represented by an attorney even if the other spouse only retains an attorney to read and review the agreement. Otherwise, the agreement might be voided. There is also a time limit to sign the agreement before the wedding day to avoid pressure and coercion.
If you don’t think a pre-nup fits your situation, then you might want to consider a co-habitation agreement. More boomers — afraid of the unknown — are opting to live together without getting married but you should have a good understanding of what each person expects if you do decide to live together.
Jim M. from Sherman Oaks, Los Angeles County, CA practices estate planning. He is a member of the Attorney Referral Service (ARS) of the San Fernando Valley Bar Association (SFVBA).
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